Being Real Together
Where are you now?
Rose-Colored Glasses
You’re still in the freshly-in-love phase of the relationship, and show your best side above all else. Every now and then, there are little things that annoy you about your partner, but you'd better not talk about them. You avoid sharing any sexual desires or ideas about the relationship that could be embarrassing for you. You’re trying not to fall into old relationship patterns, yet often keep silent about how you really feel.
House on Fire
The house is burning and at the same time, the fire has gone out. You get stuck in the same frustrating discussions, and the sex isn’t what it used to be. When you talk to each other, it's mainly about the everyday organizational stuff; that and mutual blame. You both don't feel seen and don’t know the way out. Jealousy and the desire for freedom do not go well together. You want to change something but don’t konw how.
War of the Roses
You’ve tried everything - or not - either way, you’ve decided to separate. The wounds are deep, and you’re still carrying the weight of all the accusations you’ve collected against the other. Just thinking about them, you get angry and your blood starts to boil. Or you sink into sadness and depression. Old memories of the beautiful times you shared together seem to be covered over by a thick layer of muck.
Ready to take your relationship to a new level?
Only by showing yourself completely can you know that you are truly loved.
What you can expect
In our work together, I’ll use elements of Getting Real, Radical Honesty, Systemic Gestalt Coaching, Pantarei Approach, Wheel of Consent and NARM.
The formats available for couples’ sessions include (and can be used in combination):
online video call
in-person conversations
hands-on body work
Before we start, we’ll find out together what works best for both of you.
Find out more about my approach here.
Together we’ll create a space where you can really be heard. Your exchange can be loud or quiet, happy or sad, angry or loving.
You’ll learn to be more precise; to distinguish between what is actually happening versus your interpretation of that reality.
You’ll practice noticing and asking for what you want. And you’ll learn how to take good care of yourself upon receiving a ‘no’.
What other couples say...
“My partner and I had a problem that we couldn’t get over. But after our first session we felt that we were able to resolve it. Anna’s warm and grounding presence really helped us. She’s an excellent listener and we really felt understood. Working together had a lasting effect on us and we still refer to the session - even after a couple of months.”
Margo (Performance & Creativity Coach)
"After re-visiting some of the painful situations of our relationship, I can now also feel true appreciation for my ex-partner again. It's nice to be able to take that with me as a good memory.”
Franziska
“When my partner and I first came to Anna, it was after several weeks of intense and destructive fights between us. Through the sessions with her, we were both able to develop a much better understanding of the other. The unconditional acceptance that I felt from Anna towards my partner and me had a profound effect on the harmony and love in our relationship.
Matthias (Photographer)
How do you want to empower yourselves?
Honestly getting to know each other
Give yourselves an honest start in the new relationship. How would it be to do things differently this time, and start by putting all the cards on the table? No pretending! Instead of using your energy to present a beautiful facade, what if you showed yourself, with everything that entails? If it sounds scary, that’s because it is. And above all, it leads to a real, deep connection in which you can be true to yourself. I will support you along the way, giving you tools to use for the long term.
Be connected and free, together
You want to get out of the hamster wheel you've been stuck in, and you're ready to watch and listen, even if it hurts. I’ll moderate your conversations so that you each have space to communicate. You’ll practice getting specific and differentiating between reality and imagination. Instead of going directly to the counterattack, you’ll learn to first stick with yourself and express what comes up. You’ll have the chance to meet anew - and maybe even fall in love again.
Separate with love
Even during or after a breakup, it can be valuable to sit down together and share honestly. When you work on the hurt and get to a point where you can forgive the other, that is something that benefits you most of all.
Consciously working through the separation is worthwhile. If you have children or friends together, it makes the given interactions easier. And even if you don't have any encounters anymore, you will not continue carrying a pile of unresolved baggage with you.
I work with all people who are in a relationship with one another.
All sexual orientations and relationship types are welcome!
Friends, or parents and children who want to work on something in their relationship can also benefit from Relationship Coaching.
Investment
Sessions à 90 min ( incl. 19% VAT )
For all those who were with me before 2025, the old prices still apply until June 30th 2025.
One Session
210€
4-Sessions-Package (1-2 months)
720€ = 180€/session
8-Sessions-Package (2-4 months)
1.280= 160€/session
continuous support for longer time periods on request
Get in touch.
Set up a free 20 minute consultation call with me now and we’ll find out how you both can be supported best.
I’m looking forward to hearing from you!